My talk with Omega was nice and productive, and to make sure every reader can get a good understanding of the situation, I will add some details.
After some talks about the recent events, we agreed that something urged to be done to solve the situation, and we reached the solution it was either one of the two people of the dispute that had to step back to guarantee the peace of the lobby. As the regular user of the Empire Earth lobby could expect, as a moderator, I thought I'd take the mature and decisive decision to step back to guarantee the users a peaceful gaming.
To me the mute was well deserved and towards the respect of the ToS, Lightness has another opinion and probably no agreement could be reached at that point, the only thing that needed to be done at this point was a mature step back from one of the two sides, and I will gladly be the side to make that step towards the lobby's peace. Every further talk about the mute is now useless, since everybody is of his own opinion, and the controversy can be considered as closed.
I am particularly happy of reaching this solution, that I am confident has satisfacted Lightnessking that isn't muted anymore and can keep using the lobby service, to show the lobby users that the moderators are mature and sensible people, they can make mature decisions, they will make mature decisions, and if the controversy ever arises, the moderators and the admins will be the first side to start considering taking mature decisions towards the resolution, as this post proves, and they are willing to take decisions like this one.
THIS is what being a moderator means, in spite of what some people say. It does NOT mean to be error-free, but it DOES mean to think things thorougly and even being able to step back maturely and courageously.
I'm not saying we have reached a great result that was completely unexpected, I just want to thank the other moderators who gave me their insights, and Omega who suggested this as a possible solution, and before he could think of any other I told him that I agreed with THIS solution and that THIS was the right step to take towards the resolution
